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Thank you for writing the relationship blog. I have read your blog for the past 9 months…and I have learned a lot! I used your strategies and found a boyfriend online! We have been dating for 4 months, it's been going well in general. I'm 33 and he is 1 year younger than me. He said he only had 1 serious girlfriend before. We talked about many things, old boyfriends\/girlfriend, possibly moving in together, and even marriage.
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I was wondering if you can answer my question relating to money spending habits in a relationship. We share the cost of almost everything, sometimes he paid for one meal, and I will pay for the other. I don't think I'm the type that has "princess disease" and the guy have to pay for everything. Our salary are about the same; he makes $40,000 per month, and I make about $37,000 at my job. <\/span><\/p>\n

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I'm not a big spender and I do have a house mortgage to pay. In any rate, his friend invited him and me to her birthday dinner of about 6-7 people recently, and it is at a very nice, high end hotel. The menu states that the 8-course dinner costs ~$2000, if paired with wine, then ~$3000. I think it's too expensive for 1 dinner! <\/span><\/p>\n

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I told my boyfriend that I may not go, she is not really my friend (we met only 2 or 3 times in the past 4 months) and it's not the way that I would like to spend money…and he said even though it's expensive, he will still go since they are his friend. <\/span><\/p>\n

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My question is… should he be paying or at least help pay for part of my meal if I go? <\/span><\/p>\n

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Technically it is his friend. When I took him to go to my Dad's birthday dinner meal, I paid for his part, too! <\/span><\/p>\n

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So is it wrong to think that he should pay for my meal if it involves his friend\/family\/side of people? He didn't even offered to pay for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

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If he offered, I would probably say no need la, but he didn't even offer to pay. <\/span><\/p>\n

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 At the end, I decided not going since I didn't want to ask him to pay for me (that would be ugly?)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Does this mean that he doesn't really care whether I go or not? <\/span><\/p>\n

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Is he 'respecting' my decision of not going? If he didn't even offer to pay for my meal, I felt that he may not be able to \/ does not want to take care of me then…   
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