{"id":2811,"date":"2012-07-10T01:15:00","date_gmt":"2012-07-09T17:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/%e7%94%b7%e5%a5%b3%e6%84%9f%e6%83%85%e7%b3%bb%e5%88%97-%e6%84%9f%e6%80%a7%e6%83%b3%e6%b3%95%e5%b0%8e%e8%87%b4%e6%84%9f%e6%80%a7%e7%b5%90%e6%9e%9c-2\/"},"modified":"2013-10-29T22:39:12","modified_gmt":"2013-10-29T14:39:12","slug":"%e7%94%b7%e5%a5%b3%e6%84%9f%e6%83%85%e7%b3%bb%e5%88%97-%e6%84%9f%e6%80%a7%e6%83%b3%e6%b3%95%e5%b0%8e%e8%87%b4%e6%84%9f%e6%80%a7%e7%b5%90%e6%9e%9c-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/%e7%94%b7%e5%a5%b3%e6%84%9f%e6%83%85%e7%b3%bb%e5%88%97-%e6%84%9f%e6%80%a7%e6%83%b3%e6%b3%95%e5%b0%8e%e8%87%b4%e6%84%9f%e6%80%a7%e7%b5%90%e6%9e%9c-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u7537\u5973\u611f\u60c5\u7cfb\u5217 &#8212; \u611f\u6027\u60f3\u6cd5\u5c0e\u81f4\u611f\u6027\u7d50\u679c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u00a0\uff08\u9032\u6b65\u8cb4\u4e4e\u5206\u4eab\uff0c\u8acb\u5148\u6309\u4e0a\u9762\u7684\u300c\u8b9a\u597d\u300d\u5e6b\u52a9\u4f60\u6f5b\u610f\u8b58\u52a0\u5206\uff0c\u7136\u5f8c\u958b\u59cb\u95b1\u8b80\u6587\u7ae0\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u4eca\u5929\u6536\u5230\u4e00\u4f4d\u7db2\u53cbC\u5c0f\u59d0\u7684\u5206\u4eab\uff0c\u6211\u60f3\u5927\u5bb6\u770b\u9019\u500b\u6545\u4e8b\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f9e\u4e2d\u5b78\u6703\u7406\u6027\u53ca\u535a\u5955\u601d\u8003\uff1b\u4e8b\u5fd9\u4e5f\u5c31\u6c92\u6709\u6642\u9593\u518d\u8b6f\u6210\u4e2d\u6587\u4e86\uff0c\u5927\u90e8\u4efd\u670b\u53cb\u90fd\u61c2\u82f1\u6587\uff0c\u6211\u76f8\u4fe1\u554f\u984c\u4e0d\u5927\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #800000; text-decoration: underline;\">C\u5c0f\u59d0\u7684\u5206\u4eab<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lung See Fu<\/p>\n<p>I am so upset and I feel the only person I can get good advice from is you ;(<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\uff08\u8b1d\u8b1d\u3002\u9019\u662f\u5927\u90e8\u4efd\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u8eab\u908a\u53ef\u4ee5\u50be\u8a34\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u751a\u5c11\uff0c\u800c\u8981\u627e\u4e00\u500b\u7d55\u5c0d\u5ba2\u89c0\uff0c\u7406\u6027\u7684\u4eba\u66f4\u96e3\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u5e38\u6536\u5230\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u5ba2\u4eba\u6216\u7db2\u53cb\u7684\u5206\u4eab\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u96d6\u7136\u6211\u672a\u5fc5\u80fd\u5920\u6bcf\u5c01\u4fe1\u90fd\u56de\u8986\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u6211\u6709\u6642\u9593\uff0c\u6211\u9084\u662f\u6703\u6bcf\u5c01\u96fb\u90f5\u90fd\u770b\u7684\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I read your blogs once in a while when I have free time from work and study and I still use some of the things you suggest but there is still this one person that always turn me into an irrational person ;(<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\uff08\u9019\u662f\u5e38\u898b\u7684\u3002\u4eca\u5929\u624d\u6709\u4e00\u4f4d\u5973\u5f8b\u5e2b\u5ba2\u4eba\u544a\u8a34\u6211\uff0c\u5979\u5e73\u65e5\u5de5\u4f5c\u751a\u70ba\u7406\u6027\uff0c\u4f46\u4e00\u53bb\u5230\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u5979\u5c31\u65b9\u5bf8\u5927\u4e82\uff0c\u5f88\u591a\u6642\u5019\u90fd\u53ea\u80fd\u6191\u611f\u89ba\u505a\u4e8b\uff0c\u7d50\u679c\u4e8b\u60c5\u7576\u7136\u4ee5\u5979\u610f\u6599\u4e4b\u5916\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u767c\u751f\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u5e38\u5e38\u505a\u932f\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u7406\u6027\uff0c\u770b\u7d55\u5c0d\u5ba2\u89c0\u7684\u4e8b\u5be6\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I studied in Australia for an exchange program for a few months and just came back to HK now. I met him before last Xmas and we still kept contact until Jan this year when he would not respond to any of my texts (but I know he read it, Whatsapp double tick is such an evil invention).<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\uff08\u5982\u5c0d\u65b9\u6c92\u6709\u56de\u8986\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u5df2\u7d93\u4e0d\u662f\u6697\u793a\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u6e05\u695a\u660e\u793a\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u6c92\u6709\u8208\u8da3\u4e86\uff0c\u518d\u505a\u751a\u9ebc\u4e5f\u662f\u591a\u9918\u3002\u505a\u4eba\uff0c\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u662f\u77e5\u96e3\u800c\u9000\uff0c\u6709\u6642\u5019\u53c8\u8981\u5f97\u5bf8\u9032\u5c3a\uff0c\u5927\u5bb6\u8981\u597d\u597d\u8a18\u4f4f\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So I was really sentimental and upset and had a hard time getting over it and I thought it was the end and so put it all behind me. In US I meet other boys as well but they don&#8217;t turn into anything (but I made use of your skills you teach and its useful)<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\uff08\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u7df4\u7fd2\u5c31\u597d\uff0c\u6211\u6700\u8fd1\u5e38\u5c0d\u5ba2\u4eba\u8aaa\uff0c\u4f60\u4ea4\u7537\u4eba\uff0c\u5fc3\u614b\u4e0d\u8981\u770b\u5f85\u6210\u4e00\u500b\u7d50\u5a5a\u5c0d\u8c61\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u4e4e\u9023\u7537\u670b\u53cb\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u60f3\uff0c\u597d\u597d\u5b78\u6703\u300c\u600e\u6a23\u8b58\u591a\u4e00\u500b\u670b\u53cb\u300d\u70ba\u5927\u524d\u984c\uff1b\u9019\u6a23\u4f60\u7684\u52d5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4f60\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u81ea\u7136\u6703\u4eae\u9e97\u5f97\u591a\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u5831\u8b80\u5b78\u6821\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u60f3\u5f97\u592a\u8907\u96dc\uff0c\u53ea\u9700\u8981\u5831\u8b80\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e86\u3002\u898b\u5de5\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u958b\u59cb\u6642\u9023\u898b\u5de5\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u4e5f\u6c92\u6709\uff0c\u5c31\u5148\u5b78\u898b\u5de5\u5427\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But then after I came back to HK for 4 weeks he suddenly find me again and it made me crazy again ;( From his sms I know he doesn&#8217;t know I am back to HK but I have put it onto FB so many times and he has my FB&#8230;.I don&#8217;t understand why he would not know. I am so affected by him but I was also angry becos he has not find me for 3 months and now just suddenly turn up to pretend we are still close?&#8230;.So I reacted quite cool and just reply short answers but then I think he got angry and now he does not reply me.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\uff08\u5176\u5be6\u5728\u4ed6\u770b\u4f86\uff0c\u662f\u6c92\u6709\u751a\u9ebc\u5927\u554f\u984c\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u554f\u984c\u53ea\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5fc3\u614b\u800c\u5df2\uff1b\u70ba\u4f55\u6703\u7d66\u5225\u4eba\u64cd\u7e31\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u9078\u64c7\u6c92\u6709\u5f88\u591a\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u4e5f\u592a\u5728\u610f\uff1b\u4f60\u5728\u610f\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u4f60\u81ea\u7136\u7dca\u5f35\uff0c\u4e00\u7dca\u5f35\uff0c\u5c31\u8f38\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u6709\u6839\u6709\u64da\u7684\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u4f60\u4e0d\u96e3\u770b\u5230\u8eab\u908a\u7684\u670b\u53cb\uff08\u6216\u8005\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\uff09\uff0c\u5728\u4e00\u6bb5\u611f\u60c5\u7d50\u675f\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff0c\u6703\u5f88\u50b7\u5fc3\uff0c\u5f88\u5728\u610f\uff0c\u5f88\u96e3\u904e\uff0c\u5f88\u60f3\u518d\u4f86\uff1b\u70ba\u4f55\u8981\u9019\u6a23\u5462\uff1f\u4ed6\u627e\u4f60\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u7e7c\u7e8c\u806f\u7d61\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e0d\u806f\u7d61\uff1b\u4f46\u4e0d\u7528\u5f88\u4e0d\u958b\u5fc3\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u5225\u4eba\u600e\u9ebc\u505a\uff0c\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u63a7\u5236\uff1b\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u63a7\u5236\u7684\uff0c\u662f\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u884c\u70ba\uff1b\u9019\u500b\u4e5f\u548cEQ\u6709\u95dc\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u9664\u4e86\u4e0d\u958b\u5fc3\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u6211\u89ba\u5f97C\u5c0f\u59d0\u505a\u5f97\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u77e5\u9053\u5c0d\u65b9\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u592a\u91cd\u8996\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u5c31\u8981\u6709\u578b\u4e00\u4e9b\uff0c\u4e0d\u56de\u8986\u6216\u7c21\u77ed\u56de\u8986\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e86\uff0c\u5728\u535a\u5955\u4e0a\u5b8c\u5168\u6c92\u6709\u505a\u932f\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u6700\u597d\u7684\u4e00\u6b65\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know what to do, leave or press on? Should I apologise for being rude or shall I just leave it? I feel my emotions always being pulled by him like a roller coaster and now I cannot even concentrate on work T^T My best friend says he is a bad guy becos he promise me things but he never does it (even small things like sending me a letter when I was in the US) but I still feel so many emotions for him, what should I do?? =(<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: 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