{"id":32226,"date":"2019-03-08T16:15:30","date_gmt":"2019-03-08T08:15:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/?p=32226"},"modified":"2022-04-16T19:54:31","modified_gmt":"2022-04-16T11:54:31","slug":"190308-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/190308-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u5973\u751f\u8981\u601d\u8003\u7684\u7537\u5973\u611f\u60c5\u4e8b"},"content":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u4e00\u9023\u591a\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u53ca\u60c5\u5230\u9f8d\u5319\u90fd\u8aaa\u4e86\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u5973\u751f\u5fc5\u7136\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u5b9a\u5f97\u5230\u9ad8\u689d\u4ef6\u7537\u751f\u7684\u6ce8\u610f\uff0c\u9019\u6b21\u518d\u6709\u7db2\u53cb\u4f86\u4fe1\u5206\u4eab\u5979\u770b\u5230\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":32228,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"tve_updated_post":"<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-tag=\"h2\"><h2>\u200b\u5973\u751f\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u5fc5\u7136\u4e0d\u662f\u4e3b\u8981\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db<br><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ec1b9e\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffca\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffc9\"><p>\u200b\u5f88\u559c\u6b61\u9019\u985e\u578b\u7684\u984c\u6750\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u751a\u9ebc\u984c\u6750\uff1f\u5c31\u662f\u6709\u4e0d\u5c11\u4eba\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u500b\u60f3\u6cd5\u5fc5\u7136\u662f\u932f\u8aa4\u7684\uff0c\u6211\u5247\u7528\u908f\u8f2f\u53ca\u5e38\u8b58\u53bb\u8868\u9054\u6211\u7684\u770b\u6cd5\uff0c\u800c\u6211\u4e5f\u671f\u671b\u9019\u985e\u578b\u7684\u5973\u751f\u7d66\u6211\u56de\u8986\uff0c\u544a\u8a34\u6211\u5979\u5011\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u500b\u60f3\u6cd5\u7576\u7136\u4e5f\u662f\u908f\u8f2f\u7684\u3002<\/p><p>\u6211\u5beb\u9019\u985e\u578b\u7684\u984c\u6750\uff0c\u7121\u8ad6\u5982\u4f55\u5c0d\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u6709\u597d\u8655\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u53ea\u6709\u5169\u500b\u7d50\u679c\uff1a<\/p><p>1. \u6211\u662f\u932f\u7684\uff0c\u800c\u6240\u6709\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u5973\u751f\u4f86\u4fe1\u6307\u6b63\u6211\uff0c\u8b93\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u5b78\u591a\u4e00\u6a23\u6771\u897f\u3002<\/p><p>2. \u6211\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\u662f\u5c0d\u7684\uff0c\u56e0\u800c\u5e6b\u52a9\u4e86\u5f88\u591a\u6709\u9019\u7a2e\u932f\u8aa4\u60f3\u6cd5\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u99ac\u4e0a\u6539\u6b63\u904e\u4f86\uff0c\u904b\u52e2\u99ac\u4e0a\u8b8a\u597d\uff0c\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e6b\u5230\u5927\u5bb6\u3002<\/p><p>\u7121\u8ad6\u662f\u4ee5\u4e0a\u90a3\u4e00\u7a2e\uff0c\u90fd\u662f\u6709\u597d\u8655\u7684\u3002<\/p><p>\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u6211\u932f\u7684\u6a5f\u6703\u662f\u96f6\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u7684\u7406\u8ad6\uff0c\u6211\u8aaa\u7684\u6771\u897f\uff0c\u5168\u90e8\u90fd\u662f\u6839\u64da\u7121\u6578\u4e8b\u5be6\u800c\u5f97\u51fa\u4f86\u7684\u4e00\u500b\u7d50\u8ad6\uff1b\u4f46\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u771f\u7684\u6709\u932f\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e0c\u671b\u807d\u5230\u8ad6\u9ede\uff0c\u9019\u6a23\u6211\u624d\u6703\u6709\u9032\u6b65\u3002<\/p><p>\u4f46\u81f3\u4eca\uff0c\u6211\u6c92\u6709\u6536\u904e\u4e00\u500b\u6709\u95dc\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u6703\u6709\u597d\u689d\u4ef6\u7537\u4eba\u7684\u7576\u4e8b\u4eba\u4efb\u4f55\u56de\u8986\u3002<\/p><p>\u9019\u5f9e\u4e2d\u53ef\u4ee5\u89e3\u4e86\u78bc\u3002<\/p><p>\u81f3\u65bc\u89e3\u4e86\u751a\u9ebc\u78bc\uff0c\u5c31\u7559\u5f85\u5927\u5bb6\u53bb\u731c\u60f3\u4e86\u3002<\/p><p>\u4eca\u5929\u53cd\u800c\u6536\u5230\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u4f4d\u7db2\u53cb\u5206\u4eab\uff0c\u5979\u544a\u8a34\u6211\u652f\u6301\u6211\u7684\u770b\u6cd5\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u9084\u5206\u4eab\u4e86\u4e00\u4e9b\u5979\u5be6\u969b\u4e0a\u770b\u5230\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p><p>\u4f86\u4fe1\u662f\u82f1\u6587\uff0c\u6211\u5c31\u4e0d\u5c07\u5b83\u7ffb\u8b6f\u6210\u4e2d\u6587\u4e86\uff0c\u66f4\u80fd\u539f\u6c41\u539f\u5473\u3002<br><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffce\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-tag=\"h3\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffcd\"><h3>\u8b80\u8005\u4f86\u4fe1<br><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd4\"><p>Hi Master,<br><br>I have just listened to your podcast last weekend and I have a few thoughts I would like to share.&nbsp;<\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(249, 3, 3);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946f279d3\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u597d\u5440\uff0c\u591a\u8b1d\u4f60\u7684\u8b9a\u8cde\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u5e38\u9f13\u52f5\u5927\u5bb6\u53bb\u5206\u4eab\u7684\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u5206\u4eab\u624d\u6703\u6709\u9032\u6b65\uff0c\u8b1d\u8b1d\uff01\uff09<br><\/span><\/strong><br>First, having high education doesn\u2019t make everyone in this category superior in terms of finding the \u2018right guy\u2019. <\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-16946f490ec\"><strong>\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u5c0d\uff0c\u5728\u5ba2\u89c0\u4e8b\u5be6\u800c\u8a00\u5169\u8005\u4e26\u7121\u76f4\u63a5\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u4e00\u60f3\u5c31\u660e\uff1b\u9664\u975e\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u4ee5\u91d1\u9322\u4f5c\u70ba\u7537\u5973\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u6a23\u5247\u53ef\u4ee5\u76ee\u6a19\u5b9a\u5728\u5c0f\u8cbb\u7537\u53ca\u9ed1\u5fc3\u7537\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u8981\u770b\u770b\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6027\u683c\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u60f3\u5230\u73fe\u5728\u9084\u4e0d\u660e\u767d\uff0c\u70ba\u751a\u9ebc\u6703\u6709\u9019\u9ebc\u591a\u5973\u751f\u6703\u6709\u9019\u7a2e\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u800c\u81ea\u5df1\u5247\u4e0d\u505c\u5c0d\u865f\u5165\u5ea7\uff0c\u73fe\u5be6\u4e0d\u505c\u4ee5\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u80fd\u9810\u671f\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u767c\u751f\uff0c\u7136\u5f8c\u4e0d\u505c\u626e\u5947\u602a\u3002\uff09<\/strong><\/p><p>It really depends on a lot of other things like personality, looks, communication skills, etc. <\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-16946f51eeb\"><strong>\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u5c0d\uff0c\u9019\u4e9b\u5c31\u662f\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\uff0c\u5373\u6211\u5e38\u8aaa\u7684\u5916\u8868\uff0c\u8eab\u6750\uff0c\u6eab\u67d4\uff0c\u9ad4\u8cbc\uff0c\u7167\u9867\uff0c\u7d30\u5fc3\u3002\uff09<\/strong><br><\/p><p>I have a friend who is a medical specialist but have never had a relationship (now she is 40). <\/p><p>She is not ugly but she has shocking interpersonal skills properly due to her upbringing by her parents. <\/p><p>It is sad. She said at her age she is not looking for single guys as if guys at this age and they are still single there must be something wrong with him (what about her?!). <\/p><p>So now she is waiting for people to get divorced and wait to meet divorc\u00e9e. She is so abnormal and no wonder why she is still single\u200b\u3002<\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-16946f685a0\"><strong>\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u5979\u4e5f\u6709\u5979\u7684\u9053\u7406\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u7537\u4eba\u53bb\u5230\u56db\u5341\u591a\u9084\u6c92\u6709\u5973\u670b\u53cb\u5fc5\u7136\u662f\u6709\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u6027\u683c\uff0c\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u7d93\u6fdf\uff0c\u4e4b\u985e\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u4e0d\u7528\u4e00\u958b\u59cb\u6642\u5c31\u5b9a\u5728\u300c\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u5c0d\u65b9\u96e2\u5a5a\u300d\u624d\u4ea4\u5f80\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u770b\u3002\uff09<\/strong><br><\/p><p>Second, &nbsp;having high education may be a negative to meet the \u2018right guy\u2019. <\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 2, 2);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16947003b9e\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u7d55\u5c0d\u662f\uff0c\u5f80\u4e8b\u5be6\u60f3\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\uff0c\u96e3\u9053\u548c\u8336\u9910\u5ef3\u670d\u52d9\u54e1\u62cd\u62d6\u55ce\uff1f\u5fc5\u7136\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u5c0d\u8c61\u6709\u671f\u671b\uff0c\u5728\u7d55\u5c0d\u5ba2\u89c0\u7684\u6a5f\u7387\u4e0b\uff0c\u9078\u64c7\u81ea\u7136\u5c11\u4e86\u5f88\u591a\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 2, 2);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16947003ba1\">\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u5c11\u4e0d\u7b49\u65bc\u6c92\u6709\uff0c\u9019\u6642\u53c8\u53bb\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5916\u8868\uff0c\u8eab\u6750\uff0c\u6027\u683c\u4e86\uff1b\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u6700\u7d42\u9084\u662f\u8981\u770b\u90a3\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u54c1\uff0c\u6027\u683c\uff0c\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u5916\u8868\u600e\u9ebc\u6a23\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><\/p><p>I am a medical specialist as well. When I was in medical school my friend introduced me to some of her friends. <\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-1694701b0cd\"><strong>\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u85e5\u5291\u5e2b\u4e5f\u7576\u7136\u53ef\u4ee5\u6709\u597d\u59fb\u7de3\uff0c\u6211\u6709\u4e0d\u5c11\u5ba2\u4eba\u662f\u85e5\u5291\u5e2b\uff0c\u7537\u670b\u53cb\u63db\u4e86\u4e00\u500b\u53c8\u4e00\u500b\uff0c\u70ba\u751a\u9ebc\uff1f\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u5979\u662f\u5c08\u696d\u4eba\u4ed5\u55ce\uff1f\u7576\u7136\u4e0d\u662f\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5979\u8eab\u6750\u597d\uff0c\u5916\u8868\u5438\u5f15\uff0c\u61c2\u8aaa\u8a71\uff0c\u6709\u8da3\uff0c\u5f88\u591a\u8eab\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\u5438\u5f15\u7537\u65b9\u518d\u9032\u4e00\u6b65\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u9019\u4e9b\u548c\u5979\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u6216\u5b78\u6b77\u5168\u7136\u7121\u95dc\uff0c\u5168\u7136\u7121\u95dc\uff0c\u5168\u7136\u7121\u95dc\u3002<\/strong><\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-1694701b0cd\"><strong>\u518d\u7528\u8166\u888b\u53bb\u60f3\u60f3\u5427\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u7537\u4eba\uff0c\u559c\u6b61\u4e00\u500b\u5973\u4eba\uff0c\u4ed6\u70ba\u751a\u9ebc\u559c\u6b61\u5979\uff1f\u7b54\u6848\u662f\u300c\u56e0\u70ba\u5979\u6709\u5f88\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u300d\u55ce\uff1f\u6211\u5c31\u672a\u807d\u904e\u4e86\uff0c\u800c\u6211\u4e0d\u662f\u5c0f\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u6211\u770b\u4e86\u9019\u9ebc\u591a\u4eba\uff0c\u6709\u9019\u9ebc\u591a\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u6211\u672a\u807d\u904e\u6211\u6709\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u5ba2\u4eba\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u5973\u65b9\u662f\u300c\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u300d\u800c\u81ea\u5df1\u8ff7\u5012\u4e86\u5973\u65b9\u7684\u300d\u3002<\/strong><\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-1694701b0cd\"><strong>\u9019\u4e9b\u5927\u6982\u53ea\u662f\u5973\u65b9\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\uff0c\u597d\u8077\u696d\u800c\u89ba\u5f97\u9019\u662f\u4e3b\u8981\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\u689d\u4ef6\u800c\u81ea\u5df1\u60f3\u51fa\u4f86\u7684\u6771\u897f\u800c\u5df2\u3002\uff09<\/strong><br><\/p><p>Initially the guys seems quite interested to talk to me but when they asked what I studied they all took a step back, yes, virtually physically took a step back (we were standing when we talked). <\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec0f\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u4e5f\u662f\u6b63\u5e38\u7684\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u7537\u4eba\u6703\u5411\u300c\u4f60\u5f88\u9ebb\u7169\u300d\uff0c\u300c\u4f60\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u8981\u6c42\u300d\uff0c\u300c\u4f60\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613\u8ffd\u300d\u800c\u537b\u6b65\u7684\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec11\"><strong>\u53ea\u662f\u6211\u5f88\u5947\u602a\uff0c\u70ba\u751a\u9ebc\u65e9\u524d\u7684\u4f86\u4fe1\u7684\u5973\u751f\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u56e0\u70ba\u5979\u6709\u9802\u5c16\u5b78\u6b77\u800c\u6703\u6709\u6bd4\u5979\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u7537\u4eba\u8ffd\u6c42\u800c\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\uff1b\u53ea\u770b\u4e8b\u5be6\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec13\"><strong>\u800c\u4e8b\u5be6\u6c92\u6709\u8166\u6d77\u4e4b\u4e2d\u53c8\u932f\u89ba\u5730\u89ba\u5f97\u300c\u7de3\u4efd\u672a\u5230\u300d\u9019\u7a2e\u4f3c\u4e4e\u5408\u7406\u7684\u89e3\u91cb\u53bb\u958b\u812b\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec15\"><strong>\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u524d\u6587\u7ae0\u6240\u63d0\u53ca\u7684\u5973\u751f\u8981\u597d\u597d\u60f3\u4e00\u4e0b\uff0c\u7d50\u5be6\u5730\u5728\u5916\u8868\u53ca\u6027\u683c\u4e0a\u4e0b\u529f\u592b\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec16\"><strong>\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u4e5f\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u81ea\u5df1\u89ba\u5f97\u662f blue blood \u800c\u4e0d\u5c51\u53bb\u505a\u9019\u4e9b\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u500b\u554f\u984c\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec18\">\u4e5f\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u5979\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u4eba\u751f\u4e26\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5c0d\u8ab0\u8ca0\u8cac\u4efb\u7684\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u8981\u60f3\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><\/p><p>Then the conversation ended. I find a lot of guys are put off with getting to know high education girls. <\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(254, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f3b\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u6703\u7684\uff0c\u9019\u53ea\u662f\u6b63\u5e38\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u800c\u5df2\uff0c\u5973\u751f\u53d7\u4e86\u5f88\u591a\u6559\u80b2\uff0c\u6703\u5426\u4ee3\u8868\u5979\u8a8d\u8b58\u5f88\u591a\u6771\u897f\uff0c\u5728\u601d\u60f3\u4e0a\u672a\u5fc5\u8981\u9760\u7537\u65b9\u610f\u898b\u6216\u65b9\u5411\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u80fd\u6eff\u8db3\u7537\u65b9\u82f1\u96c4\u4e3b\u7fa9\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p><span style=\"color: rgb(254, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f3d\"><strong>\u5f88\u7c21\u55ae\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u5c0f\u5b78\u7562\u696d\u7684\u5973\u751f\uff0c\u4f60\u548c\u5979\u53bb\u8857\uff0c\u4f60\u5e6b\u5979\u53eb Uber \u5979\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u5df2\u7d93\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u5f88\u4e86\u4e0d\u8d77\u4e86\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u5979\u81ea\u5df1\u4e5f\u4e0d\u61c2\u7528\uff0c\u4e5f\u672a\u5750\u904e\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: rgb(254, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f3f\"><strong>\u76f8\u53cd\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u7d93\u6fdf\u689d\u4ef6\uff0c\u4f60\u99d5\u8eca\u9001\u5979\u56de\u5bb6\uff0c\u5979\u9084\u5acc\u4f60\u90a3\u90e8\u6b50\u6d32\u8eca\u904e\u6642\u800c\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u4e0d\u597d\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(254, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f41\">\u9019\u4e9b\u5f88\u7c21\u55ae\u7684\u7406\u8ad6\u5176\u5be6\u4e00\u60f3\u5c31\u660e\u7684\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><\/p><p>I myself didn\u2019t have a relationship until 27. Study and work was overwhelming. I remember when I was intern I had to work 21 days without a day off. <\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-16947093556\"><strong>\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u5de5\u4f5c\u5fd9\uff0c\u5c08\u6ce8\u4e86\u5b78\u696d\u6216\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e5f\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u5ef6\u9072\u4e86\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u958b\u59cb\u3002\uff09<\/strong><br><\/p><p>Anyone outside the medical field might not understand. So everyday is work sleep then more work. Night shifts are even worse, there is no personal life. 7 days on 7 days off 13 hours shift and sleep during the day. However, I did met my current partner during night shift and we have been together for 13 years. <\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 3, 3);\" data-css=\"tve-u-169470a0ecf\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u9019\u5c31\u6709\u5f88\u5b89\u5b9a\u7684\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u5f88\u597d\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><br>That\u2019s come to my next point. Even with high education, the chance of meeting the \u2018right guy\u2019 depends on where you work and the type of people you are exposed to. <\/p><p>For example a doctor working in the hospital can meet people from other medical fields. <\/p><p>The nature of junior doctors rosters are usually a change in department every 3 months. <\/p><p>So we get to meet a lot of new people. A lot of my colleagues although are married to other doctors, but many are married to nurses, physiotherapist, pharmacist etc. <\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-169470b1af6\"><strong>\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u8aaa\u5f97\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u74b0\u5883\u53ca\u751f\u6d3b\u5708\u5b50\u554f\u984c\u3002\uff09<\/strong><br><\/p><p>Where as if you run a private clinic and all you see every day are your patients and your receptionist the chance of meeting the right person will be less. It\u2019s not ethical to date patients so patient are out. &nbsp;<\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(251, 2, 2);\" data-css=\"tve-u-169470bbb17\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u4e00\u5b9a\u662f\uff0c\u53ea\u9760\u5de5\u4f5c\u74b0\u5883\u53bb\u8a8d\u8b58\u5c0d\u8c61\u662f\u4e0d\u8db3\u5920\u7684\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><br>So in summary, having high education itself does not make you stand out from the crowd. There are other very important qualities one show consider having to find the \u2018right guy\u2019.&nbsp;<\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(249, 4, 4);\" data-css=\"tve-u-169470c7bd5\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u4e00\u6425\u5b9a\u97f3\uff0c\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u53ea\u662f\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u689d\u4ef6\uff0c\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u7537\u5973\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u4e3b\u8981\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\u689d\u4ef6\uff0c\u6211\u8aaa\u5f97\u5f88\u6e05\u695a\uff0c\u800c\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e5f\u6307\u5411\u6b64\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><br>I would like to hear what you think, Master. Sorry email is a bit long.&nbsp;<br><br>\u200b<strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 8, 8);\" data-css=\"tve-u-169470e14e3\">\uff08\u9f8d\u5e2b\u5085\u8a3b\uff1a\u597d\u5440\uff0c\u6211\u6a02\u610f\u5206\u4eab\uff0c\u9019\u7bc7\u4f86\u4fe1\u5f88\u597d\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(252, 8, 8);\" data-css=\"tve-u-169470e14e5\">\u6211\u7e7c\u7e8c\u671f\u671b\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u5973\u751f\u4f86\u4fe1\u544a\u8a34\u6211\u5982\u4f55\u9760\u81ea\u5df1\u9ad8\u5b78\u6b77\u9ad8\u8077\u4f4d\u4f86\u5728\u7537\u5973\u611f\u60c5\u65b9\u9762\u6709\u4e3b\u8981\u7684\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\uff1b\u6211\u552f\u4e00\u60f3\u5230\u7684\u53ea\u662f\u4ea4\u5c0f\u8cbb\u7537\u53ca\u9ed1\u5fc3\u7537\uff1b\u5373\u4f7f\u5982\u6b64\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u4e5f\u8981\u6709\u5916\u8868\uff0c\u8eab\u6750\uff0c\u6eab\u67d4\uff0c\u9ad4\u8cbc\uff0c\u7167\u9867\uff0c\u7d30\u5fc3\uff0c\u540c\u7406\u5fc3\uff0c\u4eba\u60c5\u7d30\u6545\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/strong><br><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-tag=\"h3\"><h3>\u200b\u597d\u597d\u60f3\u4e00\u60f3\u7537\u5973\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\u7684\u689d\u4ef6<br><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffca\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffc9\"><p>\u200b\u5f88\u591a\u6642\u5019\u4eba\u6703\u8ff7\u60d1\uff0c\u7576\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u90a3\u500b\u689d\u4ef6\u6642\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u60f3\u4ee5\u90a3\u500b\u689d\u4ef6\u4f5c\u70ba\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\uff0c\u65bc\u662f\u5c31\u5c0d\u865f\u5165\u5ea7\u4e86\uff0c\u6f20\u8996\u4e86\u4e8b\u5be6\uff0c\u800c\u4e3b\u89c0\u5730\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u6709\u7684\uff0c\u503c\u5f97\u5225\u4eba\u6b23\u8cde\uff1b\u53ef\u662f\u5728\u73fe\u5be6\u4e16\u754c\u7576\u4e2d\u5fc5\u7136\u4e0d\u662f\u9019\u6a23\u5b50\u7684\u3002<br><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd6\" data-ct=\"testimonial-7320\" data-element-name=\"Testimonial\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd7\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff4\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe6\" data-clip-id=\"2b5f900906416\"><svg width=\"0\" height=\"0\" class=\"tve-decoration-svg\"><defs><clipPath id=\"clip-bottom-2b5f900906416\" class=\"decoration-clip clip-path-bottom\" clipPathUnits=\"objectBoundingBox\" data-screen=\"\" decoration-type=\"none\" clip-path=\"url(#clip-left-2b5f900906416)\"><polygon points=\"0 0, 0 1, 1 1, 1 0\"><\/polygon><\/clipPath><clipPath id=\"clip-left-2b5f900906416\" class=\"decoration-clip clip-path-left\" clipPathUnits=\"objectBoundingBox\" data-screen=\"\" decoration-type=\"none\" pointer-width=\"17\" pointer-height=\"1\"><polygon points=\"0 0, 0 1, 1 1, 1 0\"><\/polygon><\/clipPath><\/defs><\/svg><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe7\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe3\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row tcb-resized tcb--cols--2\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe2\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4b84\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col tve_empty_dropzone\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffda\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd9\" data-clip-id=\"be77673be958e\"><svg width=\"0\" height=\"0\" class=\"tve-decoration-svg\"><defs><clipPath id=\"clip-right-be77673be958e\" class=\"decoration-clip clip-path-right\" clipPathUnits=\"objectBoundingBox\" data-screen=\"\" decoration-type=\"slanted\" slanted-angle=\"30.7\" style=\"\" data-inverted=\"true\"><polygon points=\"0 0, 0 1, 0.4062 1, 1 0\"><\/polygon><\/clipPath><clipPath id=\"clip-mobile-right-be77673be958e\" class=\"decoration-clip clip-path-mobile-right\" clipPathUnits=\"objectBoundingBox\" data-screen=\"mobile-\" decoration-type=\"none\" slanted-angle=\"30.7\" style=\"\" data-inverted=\"true\" clip-path=\"url(#clip-mobile-bottom-be77673be958e)\"><polygon points=\"0 0, 0 1, 1 1, 1 0\"><\/polygon><\/clipPath><clipPath id=\"clip-mobile-bottom-be77673be958e\" class=\"decoration-clip clip-path-mobile-bottom\" clipPathUnits=\"objectBoundingBox\" data-screen=\"mobile-\" decoration-type=\"slanted\" slanted-angle=\"5.8\" style=\"\"><polygon points=\"0 0, 0 1, 9.8448 0, 1 0\"><\/polygon><\/clipPath><\/defs><\/svg><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdc\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4b88\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe4\" data-float=\"1\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\" style=\"width: 100%;\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-30522\" alt=\"\" title=\"blog.png\" data-id=\"30522\" src=\"\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/blog.png\" style=\"width: 100%;\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\"><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe9\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe8\" data-tag=\"h1\"><h1 data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffea\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe0\" style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: Palanquin;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4b8f\">\"<\/span><\/span><\/h1><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4b90\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col tve_empty_dropzone\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff6\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd5\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffeb\" style=\"\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffde\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdf\" style=\"font-family: Hind; font-weight: 400;\">\u200b\u51e1\u4e8b\u90fd\u8981\u5f80\u5be6\u969b\u8655\u53bb\u60f3\uff0c\u5225\u4e00\u5473\u53ea\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e3b\u89c0\u6027\u53bb\u8a55\u65b7\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u770b\u770b\u767c\u751f\u4e86\u751a\u9ebc\u4e8b\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u518d\u7531\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u53bb\u770b\u771f\u76f8\u3002<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff7\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider\" data-style=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness=\"1\" data-color=\"rgba(191, 153, 144, 0.5)\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffec\">\n<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\">\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdd\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff3\" style=\"\" data-tag=\"h1\"><h1 data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe1\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff0\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Playfair Display&quot;; font-weight: 400;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4b9c\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4b9d\"><em><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd8\" style=\"font-size: 23px; color: rgb(179, 0, 224);\">\u200b\u9f8d\u9707\u5929<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/span><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4ba1\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4ba2\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffed\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Playfair Display&quot;;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4ba1\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff1\" style=\"color: rgb(119, 113, 113);\">-&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffee\" style=\"font-family: Hind;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-1662f1b4ba1\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff2\" style=\"color: rgb(119, 113, 113);\">\u200b\u7384\u5b78\u5bb6 \/ \u4f5c\u5bb6<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h1><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider\" data-style=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness=\"2\" data-color=\"rgb(179, 0, 224)\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffcc\">\n<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\">\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_facebook_comments tve_draggable\">\n<div class=\"tve-fb-comments\" data-colorscheme=\"light\" data-numposts=\"20\" data-order-by=\"social\" data-href=\"\" data-fb-moderator-ids=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode tve_draggable\" data-tve-style=\"1\">\n<div class=\"tve_cb tve_cb1 tve_red\">\n<div class=\"tve_hd tve_cb_cnt\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-tag=\"h3\"><h3 class=\"tve_draggable\">\u611f\u60c5\u54a8\u8a62\uff0c\u4e00\u751f\u904b\u7a0b\uff0c\u98a8\u6c34\uff0c\u6539\u540d\u53ca\u64c7\u65e5\u670d\u52d9<br><\/h3><\/div>\n<span><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"tve_cb_cnt\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p class=\"tve_draggable\"><font color=\"#e60e0e\"><span class=\"bold_text\">\u9f8d\u9707\u5929\u8a2d\u6709\uff1a\u611f\u60c5\u54a8\u8a62\uff0c\u4e00\u751f\u904b\u7a0b\u8a73\u6279\uff0c\u5408\u5a5a\uff0c\u967d\u5b85\u53ca\u5beb\u5b57\u6a13\u98a8\u6c34\uff0c\u64c7\u65e5\u7d50\u5a5a\u5165\u4f19\uff0c\u64c7\u65e5\u751f\u5b50\u670d\u52d9\u3002\u4e86\u89e3\u670d\u52d9\u7bc4\u570d\u53ca\u5167\u5bb9\uff0c\u6536\u8cbb\u53ef\u4ee5\u6309\u4ee5\u4e0b\u9023\u7d50\uff1a<\/span><\/font><br>\n<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-button\" data-tve-style=\"1\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd0\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lungchuntin.com\/blog\/price\" class=\"tcb-button-link\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffcf\" rel=\"\">\n<span class=\"tcb-button-icon\">\n<i><\/i>\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"tcb-button-texts\"><span class=\"tcb-button-text thrv-inline-text\">\u670d\u52d9\u5167\u5bb9\u53ca\u6536\u8cbb<\/span><\/span>\n<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode tve_draggable\" data-tve-style=\"1\">\n<div class=\"tve_cb tve_cb1 tve_blue\">\n<div class=\"tve_hd tve_cb_cnt\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_heading\" data-tag=\"h3\"><h3 class=\"tve_draggable\">\n\u52a0\u6211\u9032 Facebook\uff0c\u8b93\u4f60\u5f9e\u6b64\u4ea4\u4e0a\u597d\u904b\uff01\n<\/h3><\/div>\n<span><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"tve_cb_cnt\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p class=\"tve_draggable\">\u9f8d\u9707\u5929 Facebook \u70ba\u773e\u4eba\u7684\u5fc3\u9748\u96de\u6e6f\uff0c\u6bcf\u5929\u5b9a\u6642\u63a8\u51fa\u9f13\u52f5\u597d\u904b\u53ca\u4eba\u751f\u6b63\u5411\u8a0a\u606f\uff0c\u5e6b\u52a9\u4f60\u6539\u8b8a\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u6539\u8b8a\u904b\u6c23\u3002<br><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-button\" data-tve-style=\"1\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd2\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/facebook.com\/lungchuntin1\" class=\"tcb-button-link\" data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd1\" rel=\"\">\n<span class=\"tcb-button-icon\">\n<i><\/i>\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"tcb-button-texts\"><span class=\"tcb-button-text thrv-inline-text\">\u52a0 Facebook<\/span><\/span>\n<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_social thrv_social_default tve_draggable\" data-tve-style=\"default\">\n<div class=\"thrive-shortcode-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_social_default__{\"selected\":[\"fb_share\",\"g_share\",\"t_share\"],\"href\":\"\",\"type\":\"default\",\"btn_type\":\"btn\"}__CONFIG_social_default__<\/div>\n<div class=\"tve_social_overlay\"><\/div>\n<\/div>","tve_custom_css":"@import url(\"\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css?family=Palanquin:400,600,200,300&subset=latin\");@import url(\"\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css?family=Hind:400,600,300,500,700&subset=latin\");@import url(\"\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css?family=Playfair+Display:400,700,900,&subset=latin\");@media (min-width: 300px){[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffc9\"] { margin: 10px !important; background-color: rgb(246, 247, 249) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffca\"] { background-color: rgb(238, 238, 238) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffcc\"] .tve_sep { border-width: 2px; border-color: rgb(179, 0, 224); }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffcd\"] { padding: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffce\"] { background-color: rgb(240, 206, 248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffcf\"] { border-radius: 2px; background-color: rgb(233, 60, 49) !important; background-image: none !important; padding: 11px !important; border: 0px none rgb(85, 85, 85); }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd0\"] { min-width: 20px; margin: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd0\"] .tcb-button-link { font-size: 13px; box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.4) 0px 8px 12px 0px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd0\"] .tcb-button-link { font-family: \"Open Sans\", sans-serif; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd0\"] .tcb-button-link span { color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-shadow: rgb(167, 12, 12) 0px 1px 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd1\"] { border-radius: 2px; background-color: rgb(78, 122, 199) !important; background-image: none !important; padding: 11px !important; border: 0px none rgb(85, 85, 85); }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd2\"] { min-width: 20px; margin: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd2\"] .tcb-button-link { font-size: 13px; box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.4) 0px 8px 12px 0px; overflow: hidden; border-radius: 5px; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd2\"] .tcb-button-link { font-family: \"Open Sans\", sans-serif; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd2\"] .tcb-button-link span { color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-shadow: rgb(17, 118, 193) 0px 1px 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd4\"] { margin: 10px 20px !important; background-color: rgb(246, 247, 249) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd5\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd6\"] { max-width: 100%; padding: 1px 0px 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd7\"] h3 { margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd7\"] h2 { margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd7\"] h1 { margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd7\"] p { margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd8\"] { font-size: 23px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd9\"] { clip-path: url(\"#clip-right-be77673be958e\"); -webkit-clip-path: url(\"#clip-right-be77673be958e\");  background-color: rgb(179, 0, 224) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffda\"] { max-width: 237px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdc\"] { min-height: 323px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdd\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffde\"] { line-height: 1.6em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdf\"] { font-family: Hind !important; font-weight: 400 !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffde\"] { font-size: 20px !important; color: rgb(119, 113, 113) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe0\"] { font-weight: 400 !important; font-family: Palanquin !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe1\"] { font-size: 20px !important; color: rgb(119, 113, 113) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe2\"] > .tcb-flex-col > .tcb-col { min-height: 1px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe2\"] { min-height: inherit; padding-top: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe3\"] { margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe4\"] { width: 157px; float: left; z-index: 4; position: relative; border-radius: 135px; overflow: hidden; margin-top: 62px !important; margin-left: 78px !important; margin-right: auto !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe6\"] { box-shadow: none; border-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; clip-path: url(\"#clip-bottom-2b5f900906416\"); -webkit-clip-path: url(\"#clip-bottom-2b5f900906416\");  border: medium none; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe7\"] { min-height: 323px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe8\"] { max-width: 115px; border: medium none; border-radius: 0px; overflow: visible; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; width: 100%; margin-top: -219px !important; padding: 0px !important; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) !important; margin-left: 25px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe9\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffea\"] { line-height: 0.65em !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffea\"] { font-weight: 400; font-size: 200px !important; color: rgba(246, 232, 229, 0.5) !important; font-family: Palanquin !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffeb\"] { max-width: 764px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; width: 100%; padding-top: 0px !important; margin-top: 64px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffec\"] { max-width: 764px; padding-top: 5px !important; padding-bottom: 5px !important; margin-top: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffec\"] .tve_sep { border-width: 1px; border-color: rgba(191, 153, 144, 0.5); }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffed\"] { font-family: \"Playfair Display\" !important; font-weight: 400 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffee\"] { font-family: Hind !important; font-weight: 300 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff0\"] { font-family: \"Playfair Display\" !important; font-weight: 400 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff1\"] { color: rgb(119, 113, 113) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff2\"] { color: rgb(119, 113, 113) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff3\"] { border: medium none; float: left; max-width: 700px; z-index: 3; position: relative; width: 100%; margin-top: 14px !important; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff4\"] { max-width: 1080px; float: none; padding: 0px !important; margin: 1px 0px 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ec1b9e\"] { margin-top: 200px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946f279d3\"] { color: rgb(249, 3, 3) !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946f490ec\"] { color: rgb(249, 3, 3) !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946f51eeb\"] { color: rgb(244, 4, 4) !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16946f685a0\"] { color: rgb(251, 3, 3) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16947003b9e\"] { color: rgb(252, 2, 2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16947003ba1\"] { color: rgb(252, 2, 2) !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-1694701b0cd\"] { color: rgb(252, 3, 3) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec0f\"] { color: rgb(252, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec11\"] { color: rgb(252, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec13\"] { color: rgb(252, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec15\"] { color: rgb(252, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec16\"] { color: rgb(252, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1694705ec18\"] { color: rgb(252, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f3b\"] { color: rgb(254, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f3d\"] { color: rgb(254, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f3f\"] { color: rgb(254, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16947087f41\"] { color: rgb(254, 4, 4) !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16947093556\"] { color: rgb(251, 1, 1) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-169470a0ecf\"] { color: rgb(252, 3, 3) !important; }#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-169470b1af6\"] { color: rgb(248, 5, 5) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-169470bbb17\"] { color: rgb(251, 2, 2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-169470c7bd5\"] { color: rgb(249, 4, 4) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-169470e14e3\"] { color: rgb(252, 8, 8) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-169470e14e5\"] { color: rgb(252, 8, 8) !important; }}@media (max-width: 1023px){[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff3\"] { margin-left: 38px !important; margin-top: 6px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffec\"] { max-width: 431px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; width: 100%; margin-left: 38px !important; margin-top: 2px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe4\"] { width: 147px; margin-left: 32px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffeb\"] { max-width: 441px; margin-left: 38px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 50px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff4\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; }}@media (max-width: 767px){[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff6\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-right: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe3\"] { max-width: 100%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe7\"] { min-height: 110px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff7\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffec\"] { float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; width: 100%; max-width: 300px; margin-left: 9px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffdc\"] { min-height: 110px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffda\"] { max-width: 100%; padding-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffd9\"] { clip-path: url(\"#clip-mobile-right-be77673be958e\"); -webkit-clip-path: url(\"#clip-mobile-right-be77673be958e\");  }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe4\"] { margin-left: 89px !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-bottom: -48px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffe8\"] { float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; width: 100%; margin-left: 28px !important; margin-right: auto !important; padding-left: 1px !important; margin-top: -147px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebffeb\"] { max-width: 100%; float: none; z-index: 3; position: relative; padding: 15px 0px 0px !important; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-top: 65px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff3\"] { margin-top: 14px !important; margin-left: 13px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16946ebfff4\"] { padding-right: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 33px !important; padding-left: 0px !important; position: static !important; }}","tve_user_custom_css":"","tve_globals":{"e":"1","js_sdk":["","","","fb"],"font_cls":[]},"tcb2_ready":1,"tcb_editor_enabled":1,"tve_landing_page":"","_tve_header":"","_tve_footer":""},"categories":[124,126],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32226","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-all","category-technique","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/blog.jpg","views":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3oEVO-8nM","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32226","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32226"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32226\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32232,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32226\/revisions\/32232"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32226"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32226"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lungchuntin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32226"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}